In Ben's shoes

At one time I was in Ben's shoes getting out of a relationship and jumping right back into one with a lot of baggage. I dated so many women and at the end of the day I wasn't happy with myself. I didn't see a future with none of the women I ran across and I couldn't take it anymore so, I decided to be single and get myself together. Ben needs to do the same thing. Rushing into a new relationship with a lot of baggage is not a smart decision and the only thing you are doing is hurting the other person having him or her thinking that they are in a serious relationship. Hopefully, Ben will back off of the new girl and live for himself for once and be single for awhile. If he continue to date his new girlfriend, he will only be making himself more frustrated than what he already is, because he is simply not happy and he is not ready for another relationship.